What advise will you give a friend who wants to marry your ex?
If you have the opportunity to advise your friend who is about to walk down the aisle with your ex, what will you tell him or her? Asks AMINAT BABATUNDE.
Amoo Abduraheem Babatunde (Teacher) – I’ll advise him to go ahead: I will ask him to go ahead and marry her. This is because I’m done with her. And there is an adage which says one man’s meat is another’s poison.
Reedwan Idreess (Corper) – No ill feelings: Well, just because she ‘s my ex does not make her a bad person. Most women have good heart but fate might not have allowed them to marry the guy they were dating . This scenario could have played out between my ex and I. Hence , I would encourage my friend to proceed with the relationship, especially if the girl was good to me. Even if she wasn’t good and the relationship was an unpleasant one, that doesn’t necessarily mean she is a bad person. Therefore, I wouldn’t discourage my friend. Perhaps the feeling between him and my ex is stronger than the one which once existed between us . There ‘s no need for ill feelings.
Mary Isaac – I won’t come in between them: It depends on why we separated; either of us could have been at fault. Anyway, I’ll tell her (my friend) to love and care for him. I can’t come in between them.
Abdulrafiu Ismail Alaba (Engineer) – I’ll tell him everything about her: Firstly, I would ask my friend if he truly loves my ex. Then I will let my friend know about her character both the good and other side of her, and the reason(s) for our break up. But, I won’t want to be the reason for their break -up.
Reedwan Olusola (Artisan) – I’ll advise him to be sure of her love: I will advice him to be sure of the love she has for him before marrying her.
Abdulkareem Moriam Romoke (Fashion designer) – I’ll let them be: I will allow them continue with their affair. Who knows, it may work out for them; perhaps they were meant for each other.