Guys come up with all sorts of stories these days about marriage, when
truly they actually want to do damage. As a lady you should be smart
to read between the lines and see the vivid signs.
But it all lies in your hands to act and take the needed decision. It
is not about dragging the horse to the water, it’s whether the horse
really wants to drink.
Read these signs carefully and make them your best friend. These sure
signs will help you detect the time waster from afar.
1. He says it: If your guy asks you how you want your dream wedding to
be , your preferred wedding colours, ring size or likes to raise some
important aspect of the wedding he is particular about, then he is
definitely planning to settle down with you.
2. He plans with you in mind: Men naturally are wired to know the
details and intricacies of every project they want to get involved in.
Yes! project. A wedding is like a project to a man, and factors such
as accommodation, career development, finances etc. are considered.
The interesting thing about this is that he plans all this with you in
mind. He is genuinely concerned about how these seemingly minute
details will affect your life.
3. He delights in your happiness: If a guy goes out of his way
consistently and genuinely to do tasks or go on events he normally
would not go to, just to make you happy, he is definitely gearing to
pop up the marriage question. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean those
“escortoryors”-professional escorts on the prowl who pretend to please
you. The serious marriage minded guy does not complain about it. He
does not care how he is going to look before his friends. Watch out
for his body language when he is accompanying you, Is he comfortable?
He might not be excited, but is he there mind, body and soul? Is he
genuinely Interested in knowing more about what you love?
4. He helps you become better: A guy who is ready to get married to a
woman, genuinely wants her to make progress. Guys want their women to
rep them in a good way, so they want to help their women become
better. He always wants to know about your career, job, hobby or
craft. Does he proffer solutions to challenges that seem to weigh you
down? Now I do not mean being possessive, judgemental and demeaning.
Traits of jealousy and competition are a NO-NO.
5. He entrusts you with his life: Hey! Ladies, this is not to say if
your guy is not telling you things, he is not ready to get married.
One thing you have to understand is that trust is earned. A guy who
wants to get married to you, will eventually open up to you, when he
finds out you are genuinely concerned about his welfare. We call it
wife material. When a guy finds his “wife material” he starts asking
for your opinion on everything, he opens his inner thoughts, fears and
deep feelings. He practically shares his life with you. That does not
mean he is not ready for marriage if he is not doing all this now. It
is a gradual process. Give him time, and give him that motherly love
and care without judging him.
6. Family links: If your guy wants you to meet his family, be around
him at family events, meet his siblings and people he loves, he really
wants to settle down with you. He has seen you as a member of his
family.
7. He wants you: Guys get emotional and soft when they have found the
woman they want to spend their lives with. They are not scared to let
you know how they feel. He is not ashamed to tell you how much you
mean to him. He is always telling you how special you are to him.
8. Kids: When your guy jokingly asks about the names of your kids, or
the number of kids you want to have, he is actually considering the
motherly side of the woman he wants to spend his life with. You have
to understand that it takes commitment to raise kids, and for a guy to
talk or joke about them often, he really means to spend his life with
you.
